Have you stopped dreaming because you’ve experienced disappointment, regret, and disillusionment? What are your smallest, biggest, deepest, hidden desires, fantasies, dreams or passions? Have you stopped allowing yourself to want them?

How did you get to this place?

When you focus your attention to the thoughts and emotions of what you don’t want
that’s exactly what manifests in your life. However the good thing about knowing what you don’t want will help you determine what you want.

Once you’ve identified what you don’t want you now know what you want. If wanting comes from a need, a yearning, a clutching, a longing or sighing for something, then it comes from a feeling of lack, and a not being able to have. When you desire you know that everything is yours already, and that you deserve it.

If you want a want to be magnetized, you need to get your good feeling juices flowing and the best way to do this is to ask yourself the question why. Here is an example.

So “what is it that you want? “
“I want to pay my bills.”
“ why? “
‘So I can be free from stress.”
Why?
“So I can feel good.”
What else would you do after all the bills are paid?
Travel, have a college trust fund for the kids etc.
Now put it into a statement.
I intend to be financially free to do whatever I want to do, whenever I feel like doing it.

How do you feel?
Free as a bird, light as a feather, excited, and I feel secure.

Use this process by asking yourself the same why question over and over again to the answers you receive until you can’t go any further and start to feel really good about why you want what you want.

Then check on how you are feeling. You want to get to those feeling good feelings. The vibrations of those good feelings that you send out will be magnetized and drawn back to you and manifest what you want. You magnetically attract what you vibrate emotionally.

When you feel good feelings, they are like the open nozzle of your garden hose, allowing the energy to flow through it from source. When you don’t change the not so feel good feelings it’s like having a closed valve; it’s like resisting or pushing against what is confronting you. They will push back. You are trying to change what you want without changing your not so good feelings.

All you have to do is to make a tiny shift so that you can feel a little better than you felt before, which allows the flow of life giving energy to move though.

Because some people may have a challenge about using the word want, you could turn it into a statement of intent – I intend to achieve financial freedom. The definition of intend is – to have in mind as a goal or purpose.

Here are the steps for conscious deliberate creation:
1 Identify what you don’t want
2 Identify what you do want.
3 Ask yourself why you want it
4 Experience the good feeling place that you want.
5 Focus your attention on what you want.

So what is the quality decision that you are going to make which will help you make a shift? It all begins with a choice. It doesn’t have to be a leap; just a small step. You can do it.

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Do you anticipate and expect the worst from life, expecting undesirable things to come your way?

As we grow older we begin to limit ourselves in the language of what we don’t want to happen to us rather than defining ourselves in the language of being open to all possibilities. We look at the circumstances that are facing us and give all our attention to it. This attracts back to us exactly what we are focusing on.

Are these some of the things that you don’t want to happen to you?

I don’t want to be poor.
I don’t want to live from pay check to pay check.
I have to work hard for money
I want to junk that old car
I’m tired of being broke
I  feel there’s never enough
No matter how much money I make it seems to be barely enough.
I don’t want to feel guilty for having lots of money
There’s more money going out than coming in
Life is a struggle
You can see from the examples above that even when you aren’t using the words “don’t want” you may still be focusing on what you don’t want. Whatever you focus on grows.

If you listen to most people talk about money they are constantly complaining about how they can’t pay their bills, how the bills just keep coming, they can’t afford things, how bad the economy is, or that everything is so expensive.

Wealthy people demonstrate by their inner and outer talk that they have plenty of money. The law of sowing and reaping says that we get back what we send out. You may be saying to yourself “but I don’t have plenty of money”

Almost all people are creating by default because they haven’t been taught the creation process, and aren’t aware why they don’t have the money or anything else that they want.

Think of yourself as radio transmitters, sending signals continually to the universe. What signals are you sending? To get the results that you want you need to send the right signals.

When you can’t pay a bill you automatically send a signal to the universe that you desire more money, and the universe responds to your requests and takes the steps to bring it to you. Isn’t that wonderful?

You’ve asked, the universe has said yes to your request, so where is it?

Although the universe hasn’t answered your request, it is similar to you placing an order at a drive through. It has been prepared in the kitchen and now it’s up to you to receive and collect it. It’s the same with the universe. You’ve got to receive the finances you’ve asked for, by getting into alignment with what you want.

You can’t be thinking “I’m sick of bills”, “there’s never enough”, and then receive more money. You are not in alignment with your order of what you want.

If you want more money these following statement would be a sign of alignment:

I’m excited by all the things I can afford.

I love feeling abundant

Let’s buy the best, I’m worth it.

Another way of changing your mind from scarcity thinking is to see the abundance that is all around you. Notice the abundance in nature, the  trees, cars, birds, parks. As you become aware of how abundant the universe is, abundance of finances or whatever else you desire is only a step away from you.

What one step are you going to take to shift your consciousness from not having to having abundance and for feeling grateful for all that you have right now?

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