Struggling To Achieve Financial Freedom? Identifying What You Really Want From Your Don’t Wants

March 13, 2009 by Brenda Blindenbach  
Filed under Finances


Do you anticipate and expect the worst from life, expecting undesirable things to come your way?

As we grow older we begin to limit ourselves in the language of what we don’t want to happen to us rather than defining ourselves in the language of being open to all possibilities. We look at the circumstances that are facing us and give all our attention to it. This attracts back to us exactly what we are focusing on.

Are these some of the things that you don’t want to happen to you?

I don’t want to be poor.
I don’t want to live from pay check to pay check.
I have to work hard for money
I want to junk that old car
I’m tired of being broke
I  feel there’s never enough
No matter how much money I make it seems to be barely enough.
I don’t want to feel guilty for having lots of money
There’s more money going out than coming in
Life is a struggle
You can see from the examples above that even when you aren’t using the words “don’t want” you may still be focusing on what you don’t want. Whatever you focus on grows.

If you listen to most people talk about money they are constantly complaining about how they can’t pay their bills, how the bills just keep coming, they can’t afford things, how bad the economy is, or that everything is so expensive.

Wealthy people demonstrate by their inner and outer talk that they have plenty of money. The law of sowing and reaping says that we get back what we send out. You may be saying to yourself “but I don’t have plenty of money”

Almost all people are creating by default because they haven’t been taught the creation process, and aren’t aware why they don’t have the money or anything else that they want.

Think of yourself as radio transmitters, sending signals continually to the universe. What signals are you sending? To get the results that you want you need to send the right signals.

When you can’t pay a bill you automatically send a signal to the universe that you desire more money, and the universe responds to your requests and takes the steps to bring it to you. Isn’t that wonderful?

You’ve asked, the universe has said yes to your request, so where is it?

Although the universe hasn’t answered your request, it is similar to you placing an order at a drive through. It has been prepared in the kitchen and now it’s up to you to receive and collect it. It’s the same with the universe. You’ve got to receive the finances you’ve asked for, by getting into alignment with what you want.

You can’t be thinking “I’m sick of bills”, “there’s never enough”, and then receive more money. You are not in alignment with your order of what you want.

If you want more money these following statement would be a sign of alignment:

I’m excited by all the things I can afford.

I love feeling abundant

Let’s buy the best, I’m worth it.

Another way of changing your mind from scarcity thinking is to see the abundance that is all around you. Notice the abundance in nature, the  trees, cars, birds, parks. As you become aware of how abundant the universe is, abundance of finances or whatever else you desire is only a step away from you.

What one step are you going to take to shift your consciousness from not having to having abundance and for feeling grateful for all that you have right now?

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Brenda Blindenbach

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