Struggling To Achieve Financial Freedom? Discovering Your Wants
March 24, 2009 by Brenda Blindenbach
Filed under Finances, Healing
Have you stopped dreaming because you’ve experienced disappointment, regret, and disillusionment? What are your smallest, biggest, deepest, hidden desires, fantasies, dreams or passions? Have you stopped allowing yourself to want them?
How did you get to this place?
When you focus your attention to the thoughts and emotions of what you don’t want
that’s exactly what manifests in your life. However the good thing about knowing what you don’t want will help you determine what you want.
Once you’ve identified what you don’t want you now know what you want. If wanting comes from a need, a yearning, a clutching, a longing or sighing for something, then it comes from a feeling of lack, and a not being able to have. When you desire you know that everything is yours already, and that you deserve it.
If you want a want to be magnetized, you need to get your good feeling juices flowing and the best way to do this is to ask yourself the question why. Here is an example.
So “what is it that you want? “
“I want to pay my bills.”
“ why? “
‘So I can be free from stress.”
Why?
“So I can feel good.”
What else would you do after all the bills are paid?
Travel, have a college trust fund for the kids etc.
Now put it into a statement.
I intend to be financially free to do whatever I want to do, whenever I feel like doing it.
How do you feel?
Free as a bird, light as a feather, excited, and I feel secure.
Use this process by asking yourself the same why question over and over again to the answers you receive until you can’t go any further and start to feel really good about why you want what you want.
Then check on how you are feeling. You want to get to those feeling good feelings. The vibrations of those good feelings that you send out will be magnetized and drawn back to you and manifest what you want. You magnetically attract what you vibrate emotionally.
When you feel good feelings, they are like the open nozzle of your garden hose, allowing the energy to flow through it from source. When you don’t change the not so feel good feelings it’s like having a closed valve; it’s like resisting or pushing against what is confronting you. They will push back. You are trying to change what you want without changing your not so good feelings.
All you have to do is to make a tiny shift so that you can feel a little better than you felt before, which allows the flow of life giving energy to move though.
Because some people may have a challenge about using the word want, you could turn it into a statement of intent – I intend to achieve financial freedom. The definition of intend is – to have in mind as a goal or purpose.
Here are the steps for conscious deliberate creation:
1 Identify what you don’t want
2 Identify what you do want.
3 Ask yourself why you want it
4 Experience the good feeling place that you want.
5 Focus your attention on what you want.
So what is the quality decision that you are going to make which will help you make a shift? It all begins with a choice. It doesn’t have to be a leap; just a small step. You can do it.
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Great ideas.