How to change your limiting beliefs to influence better decisions and capabilities
January 3, 2009 by Brenda Blindenbach
Filed under Manifestation
We have beliefs about everything, about ourselves, our capabilities and success, the expectation we may have about our children, beliefs about people and whether we can trust them or not. We have beliefs about the current situation in the world, and what we believe will happen.
All these beliefs influence the decisions we make in our lives and the subsequent actions that we take produces our reality. What we perceive reality to be is a direct representation of what we believe to be true.
So much of what we believe we are not even conscious of, and because we perceive them to be the truth we have accepted them as such, however they are shaping and dictating our lives.
We tend to believe that these beliefs will disappear with time. On the contrary, if these beliefs are not changed they will generate those experiences that do not serve you.
We know that these limiting beliefs need to be cleared and new beliefs installed, but do you know how to do this effectively? Do you even know what your beliefs are? Are they your beliefs or someone else’s?
If you are experiencing limitation, struggle or hardship anywhere, in the area of relationships, money, your career, health, etc, you’ll find an un-serving belief there that needs to be cleared.
Because there were no English speaking schools in the country that my parents lived in I was sent at great expense to a boarding school for a better education before I was six years of age.
Although my siblings and I were well provided for, I collected a set of beliefs that said to get ahead one had to work hard, that money was hard to come by, that hardship and struggle was normal. What I experienced in these formative years shaped the core of my self image.
Most of these beliefs were held at a subconscious level and it wasn’t until I became aware of them that I consciously chose to change them.
I was fortunate enough to discover an amazing cutting edge step by step process to experience freedom from limitations, which I now teach. The EIP (Eliminating Interference Patterns) process will:
1. Identify the beliefs that are creating your reality in the area of finances, relationships, health, career, and spirituality.
2. Show you how to clear those beliefs that are not serving you.
3. Replace the old beliefs for new ones that will support your goals.
4. Permit the new beliefs to easily accomplish the goals in your life.
Your beliefs are the blueprints and the building blocks of your reality. Change them and you can change your world. The choice is yours.
For more information and to register for the EIP workshop Jan 31- Feb 1 2009 click here:=>
http://www.peacefulinterlude.com/workshops/eip-dna-workshop/
What prevents you from having?
November 30, 2008 by Brenda Blindenbach
Filed under Manifestation
We’ve been told that in order to get something you must want it badly enough to have it. The word want implies that to want something means that we don’t have it. So let’s look at this by making a list of all the things that you want. Go ahead and do it right now.
Aren’t these the very things that you don’t have?
Wanting is a state of not having enough, or a state of lack. It’s the yearning, the clutching, the not having, the feeling of lack which are all vibrations that are being sent out telling the universe that you don’t have what you want. The Universe hears you and complies by sending you the “don’t have or the lack of” which now manifests in your life.
The language that we use to communicate with the universe is through our emotions. What are the emotions that you are associating with when you want something?
Here is the dictionary’s definition of what want means:
Poverty, destitution, craving, lack of, deficiency, the state of needing, something that is absent or unavailable, impoverishment, deprivation.
You can have anything that you want. You can have it all provided that you don’t come from a place of wanting or not having. Wanting is a vibration that says “I don’t have” and if that’s what you are resonating that is what you will attract to you. It’s your state of wanting that keeps you from not having.
Wanting is at the opposite end of the spectrum to having. Wanting and having have two different states of feeling that create completely opposite results.
A person who is wealthy doesn’t want money. He has the feeling that the money is his already, thus creating more money. A poor person wants money, which creates a lack of or no money.
You are not your thoughts. Your thoughts are reprocessed information. You are not your emotions- they are just reused energy. Thoughts and emotions are just vibrations and they are transitory. They can be released. In fact the thoughts and emotions that are not serving you need to be released for you to move from the state of lack into the state of having.
So how does one change from the feeling of wanting or lack to the feeling of having?
It’s by releasing or letting go of those emotions that cause you to have a feeling of clutching, shortage, holding on to, lack, not enough.
The first step is to know that you are already complete and that you are connected to source. When you realize this you will find that you need nothing because you already have everything within you. Then you can come from a place of having. Wanting is the opposite of having.
Because you have choice you are the one that makes the decision to choose if you want to be in the state of lack or the state of having.
When you become aware of a “feeling of lack or not enough” then allow those thoughts and feelings of wanting to come up and release them. Let them go. Allow them to leave and pass through. It’s as easy as that. Believe me it’s that simple.
Mark your calendar for the next EIP (Eliminating Interference Patterns) workshop
on releasing conscious and subconscious beliefs and emotions.
2 day workshop (in person) DNA of Healing-Eliminating Interference Patterns.
January 31st – February 1st 2009.
Surrey, BC
Venue TBA
Cost: $450.00 + 5% GST $22.50 = $472.50
Watch the video “Margaret Ruby The DNA of Healing Part 1 & 2”
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EIP Group Healing December 4 2008
Location: #8 7549 140th Street
Surrey, BC
Time: 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Cost: $26:25 includes GST
Contact: brenda@peacefulinterlude.com
604-572-1136
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Do You Understand The Laws Of The Universe?
November 25, 2008 by Brenda Blindenbach
Filed under Featured
Have you ever wished for good things to come into your life but didn’t know how to attract them?
Do you wonder why negative things are happening to you but you can’t figure out why?
Most of us know that things happen for a reason. We know for example that if we throw a ball into the air that it will come down. In centuries past the reason for this was not understood. We now know that this is because of the law of gravity.
Just like physical laws govern our lives, universal laws do the same. If your life seems off track it could be because:
You are not aware of the universal laws that are working behind the scenes on your behalf.
You are aware of only one or more of these laws.
You are not correctly working and integrating them.
Perhaps you don’t know how to apply universal laws.
You can shape your physical world by learning and correctly applying these laws, which will help you create the life that you want for yourself.
Great learning at a higher and deeper level than before. Things clicked together in a knowing way.
~ G.David. BC
By signing up below and receiving our Class Audio MP3 you will:
* Trust that the laws are working behind the scenes on your behalf as you apply them. You can trust the universe to take care of you no matter what happens.
* Know that you are a powerful and a resourceful creator.
* Know that you are not alone or separate. You are one with the universe.
* Connect with the truth of who you are
* Create the perfect reality that you desire.
I had a huge credit card debt and several months worth of unpaid house hold bills and no gainful employment before I took this class. By applying these principles regularly, I have manifested my own employment, paid off ALL my debts, am current with all my bills, built a new basement suite in my house (paid for) The money continues to come. I am happier than I have ever been and continue to use these exceptional tools to manifest all my hearts desires.
~ KH. Surrey
This class lays the foundation about the importance of knowing what the laws of the universe are, how they work and your place in it.
Because of our belief system we tend to have a limited view of ourselves and of life in general. The reason for this is that we only rely on and believe what our five senses tell us. Any information or knowledge that is provided beyond the five senses is often discarded, disbelieved or ignored. Our belief system will just not allow us to accept it.
Indigenous cultures and sages from every race have for centuries spoken about these principles.
We are now living at a very exciting time where the knowledge of these and other principles are being made available to the masses, where at one point in time only the elite knew about them.
Isn’t it time that you took the power back into your own hands and became the master of your own destiny? You can do so by tapping into the laws that govern the ways of the universe.
Connecting with the truth of who I truly am has made me realize that I am a powerful and a resourceful creator. I am now using this understanding to attract to me those things that I desire. I have so much clarity, and that has helped me to move forward in all aspects of my life. Thank you Brenda
~ AB Parsons BC
You get control of your life by the choices you make. This is an opportunity for you to get a hold of how the laws of the universe work behind the scenes, and how you can take control of your creations and your life.
Know that scarcity and limited beliefs are illusions. You must know and act from the standpoint of infinity.
You can listen to our class from the comfort of your home, just sign up below and receive your free MP3 download of our class Do You Understand The Laws Of The Universe now.
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Living In Clarity: Wake Up . . . Live The Life You Love Series
November 14, 2008 by Brenda Blindenbach
Filed under Featured
The book that I co- authored in the series Wake Up Live the Life You Love: Living In Clarity hit #21 on the Top 100 Best Seller’s List at barnesandnoble.com last week.
I was very excited when I was given the opportunity to write a chapter on Clarity. If there was one thing that I was clear about even at an early age it was the fact that I wanted to teach and do healing work.
Having clarity made it easy for me to know the first steps I had to take to follow my dream. I did my training as a Laboratory Technologist in the UK specializing in Microbiology. Little did I know then after working for fifteen years in the arena of traditional medicine that I would expand into the complimentary, alternative, energy and metaphysical fields.
Working in these modalities has given me a better grasp of the infinite possibilities from which to draw upon to help myself and others to go beyond the realm of the five senses.
When we want to make changes in our lives, no matter what area that may be in, it first begins by changing how we have been conditioned to think and the beliefs that do not serve us.
Having clarity about your purpose or about anything else is the starting point. However you will need to have focus, passion, and action to keep you moving forward. As you read through the articles in this book you will receive wonderful insights, inspiration, wisdom, understanding, and many simple little secrets to help you reach your goal.
I am deeply honoured to have co- authored this book along with Dr. Wayne Dyer, Anthony Robbins, the insightful Brian Tracy, the dynamic Gregory Scott Reid, Alex Mandossian, Steve E, and other personal development experts.
Want to read more about the power of clarity? Please visit our Products page or get a copy of Living in Clarity the new best seller from the Wake Up…Live the Life You Love series at Amazon.
Meanwhile, leave a comment about how having clarity in any area of your life has influenced you to take the steps necessary to achieve your goals.
Brenda Blindenbach
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Brenda’s Mind Movie
November 3, 2008 by Brenda Blindenbach
Filed under Creative Visualization, Featured
I recall putting out the intention over a year ago for someone who would invent a tool that would allow me to put my affirmations, visualization, and my choice of music into one cohesive unit and make creative visualization an easy process.
Well lo and behold the Genie –my subconscious mind- responded to my thoughts and unspoken request with “Your wish is my command” and brought this about for me through Mind Movies. To say that I was excited about this is an understatement. Creating it was a labour of love. I was filled with a wonderful feeling of gratitude and expansiveness every time I found the exact picture that corresponded with my affirmation.
On the conscious level the images, affirmations, and the vibration of sound, evoke in us powerful emotions. For me they are gratitude, joy, passion, love, and creativity. Emotions act by motivating us. Without emotions we wouldn’t do very much. When you get connected with good feeling emotions you will act in accordance with what you want. Our ancestors depended on their emotions to survive. Today we can choose to use our emotions to make better life decisions.
Our conscious mind prevents us from achieving all kinds of wonderful things because of our disempowering beliefs- that it’s hard to make a good living, life is a struggle, etc. But this is not the way it is supposed to be.
The subconscious mind doesn’t judge. It does whatever it is told to do. If we can get past the conscious mind (which stands guard over the subconscious mind and interprets everything) with new programming then it will override the conscious mind.
Affirmations, visualizations, music, and meditation, are some of the ways by which these messages can get through into the subconscious mind. For most of us it is often a struggle to hold these images in our mind for any length of time. However if there was a way to create a movie with exactly what you would like to envision along with music and your affirmations then it would be an easy and fun way to create what you desire.
The piece de resistance about Mind Movies is that it uses a cutting edge technology that allows you to imprint these images into your subconscious mind subliminally. When they are used on a subliminal level, the message is communicated below the conscious level of perception. They cut through issues and false beliefs that are buried deep in the subconscious mind.
Mind Movies allows you to create your very own movie using your words (affirmations) images and the music that resonates with you. You also receive the software to use it subliminally on your computer.
To learn more about Mind Movies, Ryan Higgins and to get your six free mind movies:
http://mindmovies.com/vid1/?11048
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IMPORTANT UPDATE for fastest manifesting…
September 12, 2008 by Brenda Blindenbach
Filed under Creative Visualization
I’m so excited to share this important news with you because I’ve had a chance to try this myself.
In my August newsletter I wrote about Creative Visualization, which is a powerful method of imprinting into your sub conscious mind the images of what you want to manifest.
How many of you got around and sent for the free Mind Movie Videos?
One thing I’ve noticed along the way is how difficult it can be to try and get your “inner game” like visualization finely tuned so you can actually achieve what you want in life.
This applies to business, personal life, finances…EVERYTHING.
Sure, you can set goals and all that, but somehow you just seem to lose focus before you get there. So much of the time too much garbage gets in the way, isn’t that so?
If you want to change that, here is a powerful way of doing so.
http://www.mindmovies.com/?11048
This will literally set your sights on what you want to happen in your life. Mind movies allows you to create a movie about six minutes long using affirmations, images and music that you have chosen.
This will emotionally trigger a good feeling in you about the desires and dreams that you have.
You are probably asking yourself how that is possible.
Mind movies are like the powerful commercials that one watches on TV. Unlike the TV commercial that influences your behavior to get you to do what they want you to do, by creating and watching your mind movie, you get to be the one that is influencing your own mind.
The best thing is for you to see how this works for yourself. I think you’ll catch the vision very quickly when you do.
Watch this to find out how to achieve anything you want:
http://www.mindmovies.com/?11048
The price has been slashed by 50% for their launch this week, PLUS they are giving away over $2,000 worth of bonuses. You really can’t go wrong with this!
The most powerful part of this program is that it can be played on your computer while you are working on it yet receiving these messages on a subliminal level (below the threshold of the conscious)
I would suggest that you at least check it out, and if it appeals to you then take advantage of the bonus’ you will receive during the week of the launch.
Creative Visualization
August 29, 2008 by Brenda Blindenbach
Filed under Creative Visualization
One of the fastest ways to bring your manifestations to you is through the power of creative visualization.
The first step is:
1. To decide what you want in your life.
2. Then create a vivid image of it by writing down the details. You may even use your non- dominant hand to write down them down.
3. Imagine this detailed image in your mind’s eye as if it is already your reality. Use all your senses to do it including how you feel about this desire that you wish to manifest.
When you are visualizing, the subconscious mind cannot distinguish what is real or imagined. The most important thing is to experience the positive emotion of what this desire means to you. Does it bring you the feeling of fulfillment, excitement, joy, freedom?
We can learn a lot from the achievements of the Olympic Athletes. They, as well as all successful athletes, know how to use the power of the mind – they use the power of visualization and affirmations extensively to achieve what they want. They have won the race in their mind before they actually compete.
What can we learn from this?
The subconscious mind takes its orders from the conscious mind; the subconscious mind obeys what ever it is programmed to do. This applies to anything not only to sports. So if we program the subconscious mind for success or abundance then success and abundance must follow.
People usually find it difficult to include positive emotion with their visualization. An Australian by the name of Ryan Higgins came up with a visualization concept which he calls “Mind Movies”. It’s a great way to help you in using creative visualization.
Check it out here:
http://www.mindmovies.com/vid1-2/index.php?
He is offering 6 pre-made mind movies that you can start using immediately (for *free*):
One pertaining to the topic of “wealth” (in a monetary sense)
- One pertaining to the topic of “spiritual fulfillment”
- One pertaining to the topic of “health and fitness” (like losing weight, improving your health in general, etc.)
- One pertaining to family relationships
- One pertaining to attracting the perfect guy/man for you
- One pertaining to attracting the perfect girl/woman for you.
So those are actually “mind movies” for every problem area you can
have in your life…
Go download one (or all), and see if this idea works for you.
I would suggest that you place it on your desk top and watch it twice a day for it to be effective.
Any method of programming the Subconscious Mind will help you to achieve your objectives fast.
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Achieving your goals.
July 31, 2008 by Brenda Blindenbach
Filed under Manifestation
Setting goals is a powerful process to motivate you for what you want to achieve in your life. Goals help you to know where to focus your efforts, and writing down your goals is the first step to making it happen.
One of the reasons that people do not set goals is because they do not know the difference between a goal and a glimpse of what they would like to do.
A goal is something that you are committed to doing. It is written down, and you are willing to use your time, energy, money and all your resources to getting it done no matter what stands in your way. This means that you include a time frame for when you want to achieve it.
A glimpse on the other hand is something that you would like to do some day. It is not that important to you, or you aren’t that passionate about it, therefore there is no real commitment to forge ahead.
How intense is your desire? Are you passionate about your goals? Why do you want it?
We all have these glimpses about what we would like to do through out our lives; perhaps learn to play the violin, visit the Great Sphinx or the Taj Mahal, learn to sail, or to speak a foreign language. Because it is not a high priority we let go of the idea and are not willing to use the energy to do that right now.
One way of recognizing the difference between your goals and your glimpses is to make a list of all the things that you would like to do. Categorise them into your life’s purpose, passions, travel, service, fun. They can be as long as you like. Then separate them down into goals and glimpses.
Then ask yourself how intense is my desire? How badly do I want it? Can you visualize yourself achieving your goals? The greater the passion you have for it the easier it will be to take the necessary steps to achieving it especially when you face obstacles.
The trick is to intensify the passion by thinking and keeping your mind focused on your goals and the benefits that it brings to you, your family, your lifestyle or your business.
What are the critical steps that you need to take for this goal to become a reality?
Should you encounter hurdles that impede your progress don’t give up. Instead take a look at all the factors that are keeping you stuck. Be flexible and modify the action steps that you need to take to meet your present situation.
Lastly review your day by keeping track of what small step you took towards moving you in the direction of your goal. This will help to motivate you to move forward.
Every small step adds up. If you are closer to your goal this week than the week before you are doing incredibly well. Celebrate and acknowledge your success.
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Clear your clutter
July 7, 2008 by Brenda Blindenbach
Filed under Manifestation
What is clutter? Clutter is stuff that that no longer brings you joy, inspiration, or benefit. Clutter is what you are not currently using, want or need. It is stuck energy that brings about physical, mental, emotional and spiritual results.
At one time it wasn’t clutter, in fact you probably had great fun shopping for the things that you now have, or the gifts that were given to you. Now the stuff is taking too much room in your life.
Physical clutter is also an indication that there may be a feeling of overwhelm that is taking place in your mind and emotions, and weighing you down. Here are some steps to get your stuck energy circulating and get you back on track
Go through your home and remove, throw or donate any useless, unnecessary or unwanted items. If there are any objects that cause some negative emotions because of the past, you may want to consider parting with those items.
We suggest that you put a large box in the center of the room to discard, and another box where you want to give away the items. Begin with one drawer or cupboard at a time and work on that before moving to on to a whole room.
Going through the paper clutter requires more time and thought. Put things in categories like receipts and statements, paid bills; articles and magazines, stationary and office supplies, which will help you to sort each category separately.
There will never be an end to clutter, because you will always have mail coming to you, you will be buying things and receiving gifts. The good news is to have a relationship with your physical environment and decide what is important and necessary for you to keep, so that when you bring something new into your life there is a place for it. One way of maintaining this with ease is to let go of something that now is not crucial in your life before bringing in something new.
Physical clearing does several things:
1. It shows you the chaos or the clarity of your thoughts.
2. It helps you to detach mentally and physically.
3. It creates the space to allow new energy to come into your life.
Removing physical clutter has more to do with shifting the energy within you than from your environment. Everything that is taking place in our outer reality is an indication of what is happening in your inner self. Putting your external home in order allows corresponding changes to take place in your internal realm, freeing up the space for the energy of new possibilities and miracles to enter into your life.
When your mind is on overload, overwhelm becomes a chronic problem. Letting go of mental clutter gives you peace of mind enabling you to use your creative ability to design your life on purpose.
An easy way to keep your mind free of mental clutter is writing down your thoughts on paper. I get a great sense of fulfillement crossing off the jobs that I have accomplished from my to do list .
Emotional Clutter.
We have many wounds and memories from the past that have caused us to feel disappointed, rejected, let down, angry and frustrated. When these unhealed memories and wounds are not attended to, they fester. We may think that if we just suppress our emotions and not deal with them that they will leave us alone, but they don’t. If our wounds are not healed, they will affect our emotions, actions and behaviors. Ignoring them is like putting them into a pressure cooker. When the pressure gets to be too much, it is released often by inappropriate behavior.
Our feelings are the best indicator of our emotional well being. Holding on to feelings of resentment, jealousy, blame, and anger is detrimental to our physical health and wellbeing. Are you aware of what you are feeling when your buttons are being pushed? How do you deal with those emotions? Do you suppress them by putting on a sweet smile, complaining or blowing up?
You need to understand that it’s OK for you to feel what you are feeling, regardless of how strong the emotions may be, but they need to be processed.
Do not judge your thoughts or feelings. They are neither good nor bad. They just are. Your judgment of them is what makes them good or bad.
Acknowledge and take ownership of the feelings that are not serving you because they are part of you. They are a signal to let you know that all is not well and that you need to deal with the root cause of what you are experiencing.
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How to attract….what you want
June 23, 2008 by Brenda Blindenbach
Filed under Manifestation
Learning how to attract what you want or create anything begins by first identifying what you truly want and having a big enough reason for why you want it. You have probably heard the saying “what you focus on grows.” Have you ever wondered why that is so?
Having a basic understanding about Quantum Physics will give us the answer to the above question and how to attract whatever it is that you desire. Before anything becomes a reality in this physical realm it first exists in the realm of pure potentiality.
We know from Einstein’s incredible discovery in 1925 which is well known today as E= MC2 (Energy = matter x’s the speed of light squared) in simple term means that energy and matter are interchangeable. Energy can be formed into matter and matter can be turned into energy.
Einstein believed tht this energy was in the form of particles and had the appearance of being solid. He was only partly correct. The brilliant quantum physicist Neils Bohr and a Nobel Prize winner in 1922 challenged this theory. He claimed that these sub atomic particles weren’t particles but consisted of waves.
Energy begins as a wave and as it is observed it is transmuted into a particle and joins other particles that resonate with its frequency. This is known as the Observer Effect, which states that an observer is required to interact with an object in order for events to occur.
These subatomic particles (waves) that were being studied by scientists responded to, transmuted and appeared as particles (solid objects) based on the individual thoughts of the scientist who was studying it.
Your thoughts which are energy are determined by your beliefs. They are broadcast into the field as “wave energy”. They are transformed from wave energy to particles (matter) as you give attention to these thoughts. They then join together with other energies that vibrate at the same frequency and that brings about the experiences that you will encounter in your life or physical world.
How to attract what you want becomes simple when you understand this principle. When you focus, observe, or put your attention consistently on what you want, that dream or desire that you have which is in the form of a wave frequency is now transformed into a particle and will eventually become your physical reality.
This is why when you focus on lack, scarcity, ill health the very same process will occur and bring into being what you give your attention to, because this is what you are expecting. However when you focus on abundance which is only potential right now, this wave frequency will shift and collapse into particles which will manifest what you want in your life.
The source of all your success or failure can be traced back directly to the consistency and the quality of your thoughts. Only you can change your thoughts, that is why you must look within yourself and make a change in the way that you think if you do not like your current reality.
You are where you are right now as a result of the sum total of all your thoughts to this point in your life. But this can be changed by changing your thoughts. Choose the thoughts that will bring about the results that you want.
By keeping the object of what you want in front of you at all times will cause you to take the necessary actions to achieve your goal.
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