Have you stopped dreaming because you’ve experienced disappointment, regret, and disillusionment? What are your smallest, biggest, deepest, hidden desires, fantasies, dreams or passions? Have you stopped allowing yourself to want them?

How did you get to this place?

When you focus your attention to the thoughts and emotions of what you don’t want
that’s exactly what manifests in your life. However the good thing about knowing what you don’t want will help you determine what you want.

Once you’ve identified what you don’t want you now know what you want. If wanting comes from a need, a yearning, a clutching, a longing or sighing for something, then it comes from a feeling of lack, and a not being able to have. When you desire you know that everything is yours already, and that you deserve it.

If you want a want to be magnetized, you need to get your good feeling juices flowing and the best way to do this is to ask yourself the question why. Here is an example.

So “what is it that you want? “
“I want to pay my bills.”
“ why? “
‘So I can be free from stress.”
Why?
“So I can feel good.”
What else would you do after all the bills are paid?
Travel, have a college trust fund for the kids etc.
Now put it into a statement.
I intend to be financially free to do whatever I want to do, whenever I feel like doing it.

How do you feel?
Free as a bird, light as a feather, excited, and I feel secure.

Use this process by asking yourself the same why question over and over again to the answers you receive until you can’t go any further and start to feel really good about why you want what you want.

Then check on how you are feeling. You want to get to those feeling good feelings. The vibrations of those good feelings that you send out will be magnetized and drawn back to you and manifest what you want. You magnetically attract what you vibrate emotionally.

When you feel good feelings, they are like the open nozzle of your garden hose, allowing the energy to flow through it from source. When you don’t change the not so feel good feelings it’s like having a closed valve; it’s like resisting or pushing against what is confronting you. They will push back. You are trying to change what you want without changing your not so good feelings.

All you have to do is to make a tiny shift so that you can feel a little better than you felt before, which allows the flow of life giving energy to move though.

Because some people may have a challenge about using the word want, you could turn it into a statement of intent – I intend to achieve financial freedom. The definition of intend is – to have in mind as a goal or purpose.

Here are the steps for conscious deliberate creation:
1 Identify what you don’t want
2 Identify what you do want.
3 Ask yourself why you want it
4 Experience the good feeling place that you want.
5 Focus your attention on what you want.

So what is the quality decision that you are going to make which will help you make a shift? It all begins with a choice. It doesn’t have to be a leap; just a small step. You can do it.

EIP Consultaions with Brenda:

http://www.peacefulinterlude.com/services/

Healing old wounds and non serving beliefs are at the core of all healing. Although everyone’s method for healing is unique, there are some incredibly powerful principles and techniques that can  do the job in an instant.

One such way is by utilizing the Elimination Interference Patterns (EIP) technique by which Brenda will facilitate individual and groups to identify blocks and then clear them at the core or DNA level, Matrix, and Ancestral levels.

The different levels of belief are:

1. Core - beliefs are programmed into you subconscious mind during childhood. These programs run your life and exist at the sub conscious level. Through repetition, observation and demonstration you may have as a child come to believe that you “were not good enough” that you “don’t deserve it,” or “not loveable.” These programs are very powerful and are the  cause of what is causing your current circumstance, and why you may not be manifesting what you desire.

2. The Matrix is a giant mesh of ideas thta you have accepted as your own and believe to be true. Some of these beliefs you learned from all the experiences that have taken place in your life and some of them were handed down to you from generation to generation. These beliefs have been deposited into your cellular memory or the DNA.

Without realising it you repeat the pattens of your ancestors. By releasing the patterns that do not serve you from your DNA where they are held, you can then create the deep hunger and yearnings of your heart.

3. Ancestral patterns are the part of your heritage that you are unaware of, and these patterns are the sub conscious messages that you send out into the world.

Through this process we identify the deeply held  beliefs using two systems to identify the hindering patterns that are held in your sub conscious mind. Using Numerical mapping ( a term coined by Margaret Ruby the founder of this work) these blocks that are held in the sub conscious mind can be located.

The fact that your sub conscious beliefs create your reality has been validated by quantum physics. This idea was clearly illustrated in the movies “The Secret” and “What the bleep do we know?”

Using an easy 5 step process these limiting beliefs are identified and through Theta healing the blocks are released allowing you to re- create your reality.

I am now offering group healings at a special introductory price of $50.00 a session. For those who reister for the Group Healing I am gifting you a bonus - an hour and a half teleseminar (worth $50.00) called “Finding the Genie in your genes” given by Margaret Ruby.

For more information and to register:

http://freetelemessages.com/programs.cfm?id=13

My book “In Clarity” which I have co -authored along with Dr. Wayne Dyer, Anthony Robbins, the insightful Brian Tracy, the dynamic Gregory Scott Reid, Steven E, and other personal development experts is currently in the last stages of editing and is expected to be published sometime this month.

The book has a similar aspect to that of “Chicken Soup for the Soul” in that there are many authors who write a short inspirational article or story on a particular subject. There were certain guidelines that we needed to follow before our stories were accepted.

I was very surprised to have written this article so quickly, and even more surprised that it was accepted with very little editing. For years I have had this seed of a thought or desire that I had a story, an article or book in my heart that I wanted to get out. At first I couldn’t even go there. Here were some of the thoughts that I had that kept me from writing for all those years. “What have you to say which hasn’t already been said before?”, “Who is going to listen to what you have to say?” As you can imagine I had to do a lot of clearing of this and other core beliefs which I had to deal with and release before it became a reality.

This action then gave me the confidence to write my E-book, out of which I wrote the course material for my free tele seminar and my fee based teleseminar workshops. All this was completely out of my comfort zone. I had to learn about internet marketing, teleseminars and getting proficient at the computer, (which I’m still working on). I was on “overwhelm ” for a lot of the time. The most powerful tool that I had in my tool box which I used every day was the EIP process. Through this process I was able to release these core beliefs and emotions that were not serving me.

Next week I will be giving you more information about how you can also release those major blocks that are in your path preventing your success.

Do you feel stressed out?Would you enjoy learning how to de-stress through Yoga?Try this unique " 7 Spiritual Laws of Yoga" class !This series of 7 classes infuses the art of Hatha Yoga with the principles described in Deepak Chopra’s International best seller "The 7 spiritual Laws of Success". These spiritual laws align perfectly with the practice of yoga: the underlying principles of yoga suport a life of balance , flexibility, and vitality.One of the purposes of yoga is to cultivate an inner state of centered awareness that cannot be disturbed by the turbulence that may surround our lives. The aim of yoga is to cultivat this stillness in your body and mind.
Course Dates:
January 9, 16, 23, 30, 2007
Time: 7.00 pm - 8.00 pm

January 10, 17, 24, 31, 2007
Time: 10.00 am - 11.00 am
Location: 7549 140th Street
Cost: $10:00 + GST per session by the month
Drop in: $12:50 + GST
Contact brenda@peacefulinterlude.com or phone 604-572-1136
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Aromatherapy is a healing art that uses concentrated "essential oils" made from hundreds of plants and herbs from around the world. The oils -blended and diluted with other oils such as sweet almond oil are massaged into the skin. The oil molecules can then be absorbed into the body through the plant’s unique elements -such as anti-inflammatory, antiseptic or analgesic properties.

This fun, informative workshop teaches the fundamentals of Aromatherapy, and focuses on learning about ten essential oils that should be included in everyones medicine cabinet. By the end of the day you will have learned how to make a therapeutic blend for one common ailment like:
Anxiety, stress, digestive problems, insomnia, colds and ‘flu, pain
Bath salts -relaxing or invigorating
Skin toner

All materials are included in the cost of the course.

Saturday March 24 2007 9:00am - 5:00pm
Cost $99:00 + GST
Location #8 -7549 140th St, Surrey.
email brenda@peacefulinterlude.com
Phone 604-572-1136.
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DNA of HEALING
Most of you know that I teach several courses which give people the tools to remove the blocks or the hindering beliefs that are in our subconscious mind or the DNA. 90% of these unsupportive beliefs are held in our subconscious mind and only 10% in our conscious mind. As a result we can only address the thoughts and beliefs that we are conscious of or in our conscious mind.

How many of us have wondered why after making a commitment to go in a particular direction ended up veering off in the complete opposite direction knowing full well that it would be to our detriment? Our subconscious mind calls the shots, having majority rule -90% versus 10%.
Regardless of what the conscious mind says, in the long run if the belief system says differently to what the conscious mind says, the subconscious mind will veto it.

Can anything be done to change this system? And if so how?

A major belief system has changed in the last six years. Through the mapping of the genome science has discovered that the DNA is not a fixed code, this was the belief for hundreds of years,) but a variable code that can be changed at will. Science also discovered how to alter a gene, and how to change a gene energetically.

The first step in changing a gene is the energetic activation of the two strand physical DNA to a twelve strand etheric DNA.
The second step is to remove all the obstructions that we have put in our DNA so that we can fully access these twelve stands.

The EIP (Eliminating Interference Patterns) process is a powerful tool which gives us a road map to see what beliefs are being held in the DNA which is stopping us from manifesting our dreams, health, abundance, healthy relationships etc.When these beliefs are removed the path is cleared for the creation of our dreams.

The purpose in doing this process is to bring to the surface (from the subconscious mind to the conscious mind) those beliefs that we are not aware of, that are hidden, sometimes very deep in the subconscious mind. It is only when we are made aware of them can they be addressed. The first step to change is awareness.

The next EIP 2 day workshop will be held on Jan 31& Feb1 2009.(up dated workshop dates) Set your intention NOW to participate in this powerful workshop.
Cost: $472.50 includes GST

Contact Brenda@peacefulinterlude.com or phone 604-572-1136
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We have all heard Alexander Popes famous line “to err is human to forgive is divine”. How many of you find this to be a challenge? One of the reasons that this is so is because of the stories we tell ourselves about the person involved or about the situation. Rather than looking at just the facts or “what is”, we add to the facts and embellish the story, thus making us right and the other person wrong and justifying the action/s that we are taking. Stories can be very seductive and insidious. They have a way of hooking our emotions and cause us pain, suffering and turmoil. We then take actions based on the emotions that have aroused anger, resentment, jealousy, rejection, abandonment and a victim mentality.

How can we counter act this? We can ask ourselves this question “what actually went on?” It takes great courage to look at the truth, because it means that we have to take responsibility for our actions. This means seeing that we have created out reality, and by taking the necessary steps, we can change that reality. It is easier to sweep what we don’t want to look at under the carpet. Instead we must face up to our illusions and learn to see beyond them.

When we have the experience of being hurt e.g. betrayal or rejection, we need to take a look at our beliefs. We have layers of stories that feed into these hurts, believing we are not loveable, not OK, powerless, or that we are a failure. Over long years, we have unconsciously and automatically repeated these thoughts over and over again. Thus they have become our beliefs, and eventually our identity.

If we believe that someone has hurt us, remember that no one else has the power to do this. We can however take whatever someone says or does to hurt ourselves. If we believe that people can hurt us, we are operating from a victim basis.

If we were to ask our parents or siblings about an incident that took place in your childhood each of us would have a different story. Which one is true? None. Why? They are just points of view, none more provable than another.

Other people’s actions are not about us. These actions relate to their own beliefs and ideas. Understanding this causes us to “see what is”. I begin to understand that the other person is not attacking me. That person is also suffering, and makes “hurtful” comments and takes action out of lack of awareness. People feel our unspoken expectations energetically, and when we stop having these expectations, they no longer need to defend against them, so our relationships improve.

How can we free ourselves to move into forgiveness?
Write out the story, over and over again. When we read this melodrama over and over again, it will eventually cause us to laugh
Notice the words we have used. Do we use the language of victimhood? We can bring into awareness the words and thoughts that create us in the role of the victim, that continue to fuel our lives of misery. Awareness is the first step!

1. By highlighting the fear based words –betrayed, abandoned, rejected, we can learn to see what is fuelling our negative beliefs.

2. By asking ourselves, “Who would I be if I didn’t have this story? What is it about this story that I am attached to? We can learn to unravel the structure of negativity we have built, and begin to move into detachment.

Detachment has no emotion and no judgement.

For as long as we remain attached to them, our stories define us. They limit the possibilities of who we believe we can be. Yet they are just stories, not who we are.

We need to stop our self-blaming stories as well. Since in every moment we are all doing the best we can, based on the beliefs and consciousness we have at the time, there is no reason for guilt or regret.
Contact brenda@peacefulinterlude.com or phone 604-572-1136
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Through the link below you can watch the related movie on “With forgiveness”, which I hope you enjoy. If you wish, you can also sign up for the free 52 day program on forgiveness, for yourself and others.

To View the With Forgiveness Movie Go Here Now!

http://www.empoweredspirit.com/cgi-bin/arp3/arp3-t.pl?l=34&c=7316
Note: For some it may be necessary to copy and paste this link into your browser

Do you feel stressed out?
Would you enjoy learning how to de-stress through Yoga?
Try this unique " 7 Spiritual Laws of Yoga" class !
This series of 7 classes infuses the art of Hatha Yoga with the principles described in Deepak Chopra’s International best seller "The 7 spiritual Laws of Success". These spiritual laws align perfectly with the practice of yoga: the underlying principles of yoga support a life of balance , flexibility, and vitality.
One of the purposes of yoga is to cultivate an inner state of centered awareness that cannot be disturbed by the turbulence that may surround our lives. The aim of yoga is to cultivate this stillness in your body and mind.
Dates:
November 7, 14, 21. Tuesdays 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm
November 8, 15, 22, 29. Wednesday 10:00 am - 11:00 am
Location: 7517 140th Street
Cost: $10:00 + GST per session by the month
Drop in: $12:50 + GST
Contact brenda@peacefulinterlude.com
www.peacefulinterlude.com/services.htm